Words To Wed By



PHOTOGRAPHER CREDIT: 

Addicted to Details: “I spent days and nights worrying about the details of the rehearsal dinner, ceremony, and reception, and I was really nervous I wouldn’t enjoy my own celebration.”SOLUTION: “I got everything done two months in advance, assigned my friends jobs, and then forced myself to stop. I also remembered what my fiancé said: ‘At the end of the day, we’re still going to be married.’” Ginny Stout wed Forest Hairston on February 24, 2007 at First (Scots) Presbyterian Church Scheduling nightmare:“Wedding vendors work the same hours as me (Monday to Friday, 8:30 a.m. to 5:30 p.m.), and they were always booked for weekend events, too. I couldn’t take a ton of time off work to meet with them, because I was saving days for our honeymoon.” SOLUTION: “I scheduled as many appointments as I could for one day. After 10 minutes I knew if a vendor was right for me and if they were, we then did everything else—quotes included—online.” Katie Sexton wed Jason Ratliff on June 2, 2007 at St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church in Mount Pleasant Too Friendly:“Blessed with a ton of wonderful friends, I had a hard time figuring out how to keep my wedding party to a manageable number.” SOLUTION: “I limited bridesmaids to family and friends I had known the longest. Other friends participated by reading at the ceremony and handing out Mardi Gras beads at our New Orleans-themed reception.” Jesse Hendrix wed Jamez Inman on April 27, 2007 at the Unitarian Church in Charleston Music Fanatic:“I became obsessed with my song list. For example, I told my DJ what slow songs I wanted played as background music during the sit-down dinner versus what songs I envisioned for dancing. I also sent him song spreadsheets and specific versions of what I wanted when a song had undergone multiple recordings and remixes. I even made CDs and forced my family to listen to them and act as judges!" SOLUTION: “If I did it again, I’d just make a list of songs by specific artists I wanted to hear during dinner versus during dancing. And I’d provide the DJ with a list of songs I absolutely disliked and trust him to do the rest.” Whitney Alcott wed Alexander Okon on June 30, 2007 at St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church in Mount Pleasant Washout:“We planned a ceremony overlooking the avenue of oaks at Oakland Plantation, but a tropical storm ruined that idea. I woke the morning of the wedding knowing that it would be impossible to hold the ceremony where we had hoped.” SOLUTION:“My dad said, ‘As the bride, your attitude sets the tone for the entire day.’ In other words, if I were happy and acted like this were the best day of my life, it would be, and everyone would have a great time. Or if I were miserable, that would spread to the guests, too. So I smiled, hugged my sister, and texted my bridesmaids to prepare for ‘The best hurricane party they’d ever been to.’” Emily Gregorie wed Damon Padgett on June 2, 2007 at Oakland Plantation in Mount Pleasant

The Wedding Row

September 19 2018
The sparks flew for Cole and Nick one fateful night at a mutual friend’s New Year’s Eve party. Truth be told, both admit to not wanting to attend the festivities, but the two tell us that when they...

September 18 2018
Two weeks before Mike graduated from Endicott College in Beverly, Massachusetts, he met fellow student Taylor, who was wrapping up her freshman year. After six years of dating, the two had a thriving...

September 17 2018
So we’re back to the offices after having evacuated Charleston due to Hurricane Florence. While we’re thankful that the Lowcountry was spared devastation, it’s obviously bittersweet relief given so...

September 12 2018
From a flying groom (you’ll see) to a floral installation of 875 tulips (yep, we’re totally serious), our Instagram page was certainly filled with excitement during the month of August. As a little...

September 11 2018
Hot times calls for haute trends. From custom newlywed crests to one cutie of a bar-on-wheels, here are our top five takeaways from the current issue of Charleston Weddings magazine. Click here to...

September 10 2018
The Wedding Row: Tell us about the beginning of you as an item. Emily: In 2014 I was home from grad school and I went to the gym. That’s where I met Justin–a new guy who had just moved from...

September 7 2018
A last-minute opening at Carlos Hernandez’s autumn photography workshop at Lowndes Grove Plantation led to today’s minimalist and moody post shot by Rachel Craig. Her big takeaway from the styling,...

September 6 2018
Lindsay and Andrew, who both grew up in Cleveland, Ohio, first met at the Charleston Animal Society’s Firefighter Calendar Debut party and auction. Yep, you read that right. A PG-version of a “Magic...